Tumhari 'Nice Guy' Image Ek Defense Mechanism Hai

"Main sabke liye hamesha present rehta hoon, par mere liye koi nahi hota." Agar tumne ye line kabhi boli hai, toh suno. Tumhari yeh over-availability generosity nahi hai, ek deal hai jo tumne apne dimag mein banayi hai. Tumhe lagta hai ki agar tum logon ke liye useful rahoge, toh log tumhe chhod ke nahi jayenge.

Lekin reality yeh hai ki jo boundaries set nahi kar sakta, uski respect koi nahi karta. Log tumhara use karenge aur aage nikal jayenge. Tum gussa ho? Logon par mat ho. Apni us aadat par ho jo tumhari self-respect se zyada external validation ko important manti hai.